Four Signs True Love

You can find someone who is really well suited to serve as a life partner and even have more than one in your life. But then how do you really know for sure?
Here's help to convince decision of your relationship:


Express the desire and why want it?
You must have a clarity not only about what you want from love, but what they want in life with your partner. Immediately after knowing it, you'll sure have entered into a relationship with a clear purpose and vision of what your relationship with him. Determining the criteria will help avoid the difficulties involved with someone who is not suitable for you.


Measure your romance
Although it sounds stale, make a list of your ideal partner expectations. Fill with the desire perfect partner, a special but realistic. The more you know what's right for you, the easier it will capture the moment when he could walk with you.


Love yourself
There's the old adage says: "You will not be able to make others happy until you're happy yourself." This will not only help when meeting someone new, but also helps you start a relationship at the right time.


Be the best
Love is not just looking for someone who will make you happy. Matches will yield the best-maybe someone who will make you become a happier and more productive.


The best way to find true love is smart to choose someone and clear why you chose it.




Laughter Can Make Love


The way you laugh, can make other people like and love arise. Therefore, the clever set-pandailah laughter.
Once the word and relationship advice expert. He said, if you're trying to attract the opposite sex, try to laugh. Because, laughing turns play an important role in a relationship.


Jo-Anne Bachorowski, assistant professor of psychology, Maria Smoski, and Michael J. Owren, a professor from Cornell University, found that humans have varying laughter.


Not only that, a study of 120 students at Vanderbilt University, is known, was the sound of laughter can attract people's attention. If we can process it, laughter can cause a sense of love.
"Of course, the sound of laughter depends on gender. But its appeal is determined situation and the person's condition and the environment - including who to laugh," explained Bachorowski.


"We are seeing, laughing very effective - like eye contact. And in fact, without realizing it, many people who use tricks to laugh to show an emotional state and how to respond to something," he added.


Make people so fancied
In fact, laughter is more than just a seasoning of conversation. We can use laughter to control one's emotional state - and yourself, of course. And in fact, many people are interested in the cheap smile.


"If people are interested in the mercy of your smile, then you can make them more interested in - or mediocre contrived, set the tone and intonation with laughter."


That said, if you are a woman, then the best way to rip the man's defense is to laugh at rather high tone accompanied by hand movements around the chest.


In contrast to men. That said, women are more attracted to men who are good at pressing the laughter until it is lower. With a sound more 'civilized', men can reduce negative thoughts toward women.




10 Tips to Finding and Maintaining Relationships Asmara


1. Do not fall in love with someone who is very potential. Too many men and women who have a friend or stay in a relationship with the expectation that others will change.
Be honest and be yourself and ask: "Can I love this person with the actual way in which they are now without hope for change?" if not, find another.


2. Do not worry about lust. In the sense that in a hurry, people having sex would create a false intimacy, which will lead to disappointment.
Take time to create a genuine emotional connection and let the passionate sexual relationship grow.


3. Do not ignore the desperation to have a relationship. For example, if he makes a statement like "I do not perform properly commitment," Trust him.
Ask yourself, "Is this person emotionally and situsioanal willing?" (People tend to spend time to his hobby and then a new partner).


4. Do not assume your friends are "physically" knowing what you want and need.
Responsible to express your feelings and need each other. This will avoid conflict and emotional connections in between you.


5. Accept your partner is. When the couple entered the honeymoon phase, they often feel satisfied with each other.
Continue to do romantic things with one another in every relationship, not only in the early stages. For example, make a "date night" once a week.


6. Be empathetic to your partner. Set aside some time to your plan and see your partner to understand his thinking. Acknowledge and validate your partner's feelings does not mean you have to agree with them. If this does not mean you have to give up on your own needs. Often times, the feeling of understanding will mean more to your partner than to be right or win the battle.


7. Focus on what you like about your partner and what they are doing right, rather than about their mistakes.


8. Your lover back. People who love you back. You will not be involved with someone who will love you.


9. You do not feel you are walking on eggshells. If you have a strong feeling in your stomach, it is not love, but you try to get approval.


10. A healthy relationship will enhance self-esteem.


To obtain a harmonious relationship, each partner needs to expose themselves. Healthy relationships happen when both partners feel safe to express themselves actually against each other.




Say It with Flowers ...
Say it with flowers, that's the phrase we often hear to express something to someone. Bungalah which always represent our feelings toward a loved one.
From generation kegenerasi, the woman who always loved always accept gifts of flowers. Flowers as part of the flora is a symbol of life and beauty, so that when received, women not only feel vibrate and flattered, they feel beautiful and very special. Giving flowers to a loved one will increase the sense of affection for you, and make it still very significant in your life.
Generally, interest is given in a special ambiance and to apologize, but the best time to give flowers is when there is no reason whatsoever. If you buy flowers just because you want to know that you love and memikirnya continuously, he would feel more impressed, and honor more than ever. Core giving "surprise" (in an atmosphere that is not party) will add a new atmosphere in your relationship.
Here are some flowers with meaning:

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      Full of charm carnations
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      Friendship chrysanthemum
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      Love is faithful daisies
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      Bunga Cinta pent glass plate
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      The beauty of flowers bungur
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      Love and beauty of orchids
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      Roses "I can not live without you"
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      Rose (thorn less) Love on first sight
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      Love the perfect tulip
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      Virtue violets
There are several ways to submit interest in your partner. Remember, whatever you do, your goal is to impress. The best way is to show the world that he was the companion of your life.


Give yourself


Why do not you buy flowers and take it straight? You can help situated in the water. Or take him to work and show all her coworkers that you are not only a good but how beruntunganya you have it.


Special delivery


Delivering flowers through delivery while you are in place and you see he was surprised when I read a greeting card, he not only feel a million flavors, but he also wanted to make you the same thing.


Whatever the reason, she sent flowers today to show that you love and respect him more than anyone else.




Changed By Boyfriend: kudu!?


Many people are willing to change for the sake of her lover. Whether it was requested, or the desire itself. What about you?
Transformed into a better person, obviously not a problem. In fact, Cindy Haynes in The Book of Change, it was suggested. Moreover, if based on personal awareness.
"Changed or (rather) a compromise for the sake of love, will contribute to the relationship. Moreover, if the change is positive and inspiring for both of us. Nothing wrong, koq!" Haynes said.
Then, what kind of changes that could be considered positive and inspiring?
Appearance, as if you are sued appear graceful and sexy, but you are a casual person. Do not be frustrated, but try to find a new side that you never feel. Compromised, to the extent where you can change it. At the very least, you do not need to be changed completely.
Weight. Naturally, if he concentrates on body weight. The reason, besides not pleasing to the eye, too thin or too 'ndut' it's a sign people are less healthy. No offense, but think about the positive side, unless you feel comfortable with the current body weight.
Changing nature. This is the most difficult, because nature is already innate. But when he takes you into a better direction, why not? Moreover, if (the word friend), you've got a line of nature "ugly", such as hot-tempered, vindictive, or lazy. Okay, is it that can be changed?
More smart. That is certainly not because you are stupid, but he would feel more proud if you can 'more' smart. This can add your spirit to emerge as a more personal quality. Absolutely not change a bad right?
In essence, as far as changes that affect the prosecution of either, we need to consider. After all, not just for the good relationship, but for us too! Well, if love more intently, absorbed in it ...?




Romantic Means Mesra?


It is said that girls prefer romantic things than men. But really, what is the meaning of romance for you?
There are many definitions of a romantic or romantic. What is clear, said Robert Billingham, a professor from Indiana University, USA, romance is not just a gentle caress, sweet words, cast in the eye, and a brown derby, or a myriad of compliments.
"For women, romance is a reflection of trust to the spouse," says Billingham. "A woman will realize, sexual intimacy involving the willingness to 'surrender'. That was done because she believes in her partner."
Women usually contain emotional romanticism. A prostitute will say, that intercourse with her boyfriend, in contrast to a joint customer. "When the 'work', prostitutes do not have the emotional attachment."
As for men, being romantic is more directed to a sense of love, affection, the provider and protector. "When being romantic, he really wanted to say I love you and do not intend evil, then believe me," says Billingham.
But unfortunately, very few men who engage emotion and confidence in the romance. That caused a sense of love, affection and protection needed to say, sometimes not until the goal. According to Billingham, men prefer the passion and sex in a romance.
Why is that? A neurologist, Dr. James Olds explained, it is caused by differences in biological structure and sex between men and women. "That's why men and women look at romance from a different lens," said Olds, from George Mason University, Virginia, USA.
Clearly, "Men have a supply of sperm that may be infinite and biologically, they have been programmed to 'spread the seeds of it'. That way, they will only be considered romantic if someone wants to be a place for distributing the seeds."




Sacrifice For Love?


In the name of love, many people are "behind Stand up for" sacrifice anything. Objective one, for the happy couple. But, should up to that?
That said, the girl claimed to be the party of the most sacrifices for men. Meanwhile, there are many who feel arjuna has been "sacrificed" his love and painstaking care.
Regardless of which side the most sacrifices, psychotherapist Dr. Laura Schlessinger, in Los Angeles, USA, to assess "sacrifice" is the dumbest thing people do.
Of course, Schlessinger did not mean to invite us to be selfish, and not indifference. The proof, he advised us to remain patient and uphold tolerance.
Balanced. It is said also, women had higher levels of tolerance and patience higher than men. Perhaps that is why, the woman becomes the more sacrifices or succumb.
In fact, "Many women who felt compelled to make sacrifices. In fact, not a few women feel happy for his sacrifice. In fact, the condition that, far from a healthy relationship."
In fact, that true happiness can only be obtained if there is a balance. "So, not only women or men who have to make sacrifices. But it must be both."
`In a certain portion, sacrifice or give in would really help a relationship. But if left constantly, conditions that can be reversed into a time bomb, ready to explode at any time.
So, never fear to negotiate any conditions or problems encountered. It can be a lesson of tolerance for couples, and authorization for your lesson.




When Asmara in Point Saturated


Sooner or later, will come when the love affair reached a saturation point. So prepare yourself to face it. When the time reaches this point, then all that happened would seem so monotonous and boring. The relationship feels 'cold' and bland. When this happens, what to do?
Nita Tucker in How not to screw it up, have special tips to overcome them. Back to the past and remember the good times fall in love once, you can warm up again romance.

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      Browse back your love story with open old albums, or read love letters when they were dating. Bring the good times that in words.
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      Ask your partner, what was once made him interested in you. It can arouse memories and re thrill you.
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      If you still remember the first time he expressed his love, there's nothing wrong celebrated with a movie and dinner together. The impact, will be felt.
Or, you can follow the advice Dan Zevin in The Nearly-Wed Handbook:



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      Hanging out with peers who are single, can add warmth. Listen to their stories, and you'll better appreciate the presence of a partner.
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      Separate residence for the time being will also be very helpful. Not to escape, but to realize the existence of a partner. Experience the beauty of longing without a partner beside you.
All the effort that will burn back the fire of love that was almost extinguished. So, do not let your love grow cold.
You never experienced it?




How to Get Romantic


Romance is a mood that makes us feel what we want. Is it dance with someone you love under the stars spangle or wink when you meet with her views.


Romance can make the world seem to have both-at least at that time. But the world today where the matter came to no end, it might be difficult to find time for impulsive in a narrow time.


Often busy couples with children need to understand that their child's position was after the couple. Child's happiness was based on relationships that parents had their own.


For those who feel romantic, do not feel lost hope. Romantic emphasis on the importance of communication in every relationship and your partner should routinely meet somewhere to talk. Here are some suggestions for those who have limited time.


Set aside a time-Make your relationship a priority.


Dating at an unusual time-Are you someone who has been married or not, dating at breakfast, between breakfast and lunch or meet each other for just a drink after work. to maintain the relationship even if only briefly.


Hire a maid-Leave the house for temporary work assistant who completed, you can freely to do romantic things together.


Spend time alone together-It is important to reconnect with your partner and let him know what is going on in your life. Go out and do something together.


Each person can be romantic. They will notice a loved one or perhaps more equal than themselves. Just need a little creative and business to have a romantic idea in your relationship.




5 Ways to Avoid Boring Romanticism


Have you ever noticed how many people let their relationship becomes stale and fall into the boredom? Perhaps, you are in a situation like this, iini situation will be very difficult to solve. But here are five things you can do to avoid boredom and keep romance alive in your relationship.


Express love
Always tell your partner that you love him. The phrase, "I love you" is not just saying words alone, is also about how you say it. Be creative and remember that action speaks louder than words.


Communication
One of the coverage of the most talked about in a relationship is communication. Lack of communication will kill the relationship, so it's important to at least set aside time each day to talk with your partner. Communication is no problem even if you're talking about, as long as you talk about something. Soon you will find that you have plenty to say.


Honest in relationship
This may seem a little strange, because the profit is far from clear. When you do something wrong on your partner, no matter whether they ever knew. In fact, you have to make changes and create distance between you both. But do something against your spouse, and you'll soon find yourself in a spiral of decline.


Do not be too judgmental of your partner
Instead of the above is to realize that everyone can make mistakes. If your spouse has made a mistake, sit quietly and see if it is something you can do. Too often and quickly you blame every mistake akin cause a profound reaction. The reaction can trigger a deep regret in the future.


Add a little romance every day
Being romantic is not difficult and can be done in many ways. It is very important, at least you make every day a romantic action spontaneously or be creative and according to your taste.




Say Something Sweet By Ear LEFT!


If you want to express that you love someone, you should submit it through their ears to the left, says a new study.


Someone will look better remember emotional words like "love", if they hear it through the left ear, a study by experts of psychology at Sam Houston State University, Texas.


This means that if something good to hear through the right ear, they are more likely to forget.


The researchers said the findings could be explained by the fact that the left ear is controlled by the right hemisphere, which is responsible for the emotional stuff.


"These findings are consistent with the role of the right hemisphere in processing emotional stimuli," says Dr. Teow-Chong said in a statement at the European Congress of Psychology, which was held this week.


Sim study involving 26 people who listen to the words differently through the two ears in the same time. The words composed of emotional words like "depression" until non-emotional words such as "merge".


After training, participants were asked a number of words they had heard.


The researchers found that participants have a stronger memory of emotional words that they had heard through the left ear. Repetition of the same through the right ear is not as strong as that delivered through the right ear.




8 Reasons Need More Sex


Who says sex just gives menikamatan? Here we present some results of other studies about the benefits of sex.

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      When making love, female hormone estrogen will produce twice as big. As is known, the hormone that's good for healthy hair and skin.
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      Sexual intercourse is often accompanied by perspiration. That means, the body's metabolism is stimulated to work properly. Did you know, sweat duty dispose of toxic substances in the body?
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      Sex for 26 minutes [to orgasm], the same as jogging or swimming 20 rounds, which can burn half the calories of regular pizza. This is good for the diet, right?
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      Sexual intercourse is done as they liked and would spur the release of andhorpin to the blood. That is why the body feels light and fun while making love. But, besides that, it turns out good andhorpin to reduce depression.
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      The hormone oxytocin is released immediately after orgasm, is the safest tranquilizer. Do not be surprised if you feel sleepy after having sex. If oxytocin come, disturbed sleep is lost.
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      Sex usually without the kiss was bland. Unexpectedly, it was a kiss that done, both to stimulate saliva production, which is useful to maintain the acidity of the mouth and eradicate bacteria. That way, toothache and bad breath was spared.
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      Having sex for 20 minutes [not including foreplay], both to train the cardiovascular work to expedite the flow of blood from the heart throughout the body, including the brain. That way, other than the heart grow stronger, headache was gone.
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      The more frequent sex, the more the body's production of antihistamine. That way, your body will get used to working hard and this is beneficial for stamina. But, an antihistamine is also good for smooth breathing, you know.
Of course, for maximum results, intercourse should only be done safely with an official partner.




Intimate Sex Not Only Just


Intimacy is used as an expression of penghalus a sexual relationship, psychologists are very familiar with that intimacy is a crucial part of all our important relationships. This is the factor which gives a relationship to be deep, meaningful and full of personal values.


If we so desperately need intimacy, why then the intimacy is so difficult to achieve? Biggest obstacle now is the time, and lack devices, said Susan Prosser, a kounseler and psychologist for Counseling and Education in Ottawa. Intimacy requires a lot of time commitment, among us have more than two or three intimate relationships.


Another obstacle may be frightened, by letting other people know what is happening to us at risk ridicule and rejection. Hence, why we sometimes find a situation that seems intimate but usually not.


The main misconception that only the necessary intimacy in your relationship with your partner. But the view of men and women often differ, says Jayne Weatherbe, an expert on therapy from the Family Therapy Institute of Vancouver Island. If the idea of intimacy in men that are watching favorite TV shows with his wife while the wife shopped together, they may be disappointed if they do not have other people to satisfy their desires.


"To get all the needs that are satisfied by sex with a partner is usually very costly to the marriage. It is very dangerous for someone to have a meaningful relationship. Someone who is not in a serious relationship can still be very intimate experience in their lives. "


Another wrong assumption is that if intimacy is not achieved easily, we are in the wrong relationship. But to achieve and maintain intimacy requires work and this is a process. Usually when we get closer to someone else, we will feel awkward, and away.


The third misconception is that intimacy is a matter of women, open men. Actually, the intimacy is a basic human requirement, but society has not given him the opportunity to show.